Is there a place on the net to get GOOD marriage advice for free.

I think i need to go see a marriage consular. I do not have health insurance anymore, and i can not afford to pay someone 125 an hour to talk to.





I can not talk to my mom because she is pissed that i feel like this... My best friend keeps telling i told you so, I don't have any other friends and the reast of my family agrees with me but wont give me advice...





My problem is my husband is a all of a sudden a bum, doesnt wanna get a ';real'; job with beniefts and sercurity. He wont do anything in the house since he is not working, he doesnt support me and my daughter. I have no respect for him anymore and i don't want to be with intimely either. I have been in a permamently bad mood for 6 weeks now. I can't throw him out because the little money he brings in we need.





I have so many dreams. But i have to use that money i have saved to pays the bills coming up in the next few weeks. So what i'm looking for someone to give me sound advice on my problems whenever i need it. Is there anything out there that can help?Is there a place on the net to get GOOD marriage advice for free.
do it the old fashioned way, go to churchIs there a place on the net to get GOOD marriage advice for free.
Get a job so you don't need him to pay the bills. That way you can kick him out of the house, or give him an ultimatum to get an actual job or he's out of your life. How did he become like this? I doubt this was an immediate process. You might want to look back many years to when this started and if he was always like this. This laziness did not come out of nowhere.
Were you %26amp; your husband married in a church or does your family attend? You could speak with the pastor for free. You also might be able to contact local women's groups or even try contacting your county's government building. They may be able to refer you to a counsellor that has programs for lower income families.
I would go talk to a Pastor or a Priest or try to get on the Dr. Phil tv show. Your husband might be in a bad depression and have low self esteem. Life does not always turn out the way we dreamed it would. Good Luck.
mmm, find a good church in your local area... their is somthing call the ';marriage course'; out there... i could find more details on. But it's circulating around the churches...and its mending, repairing, and MOT'ing many marriages.
Yes the preacher or an elder would be ..............contacting another church in the community, sometimes advise from your own church is embarssing.........lots of churches hire a counsluar and offers the members free use of................
Yahoo Answers is the perfect place because you can get free advice 24/7!





Leave him!! Your Prince Charming is out there waiting for you somewhere!





My second husband was a real nightmare. But I got away from him!
Find people (friends) who have good marriages that have lasted for a long time and pick their brain. Unfortunately, not many people here in Yahoo Answers fit that bill.
Check out this web site. Dr. Harley has some good ideas and a different perspective than most. The books he sells can be found used on Amazon.com or E-bay on a budget also.
Ask old married couples their secrets.
Your already here. Yahoo answers will show you the way....until you get to many violations.
stop giving to him. give to yourself! find a way out. leave him! go get a new man! talk to him!
He sounds depressed, probably because he's not working. You need to have a sit down with him and tell him EXACTLY how you feel. What you said here is a great start. I've been in your position, and your husband is just in a funk. Tell him what your expectations are and make it clear that being a bum isn't an option. Ask him how he would feel if you decided that you weren't going to participate in your life. It puts a whole new perspective on things.
There are a lot of support groups but I think the best ones are actually those in your own community. Check around and see what is available. This site is pretty good if you can get past the stupid idiots that answer stuff.





In your situation there are two issues. The first is the situation with your husband not wanting to work a real job. I take it that he at some point before this had a good job? So the question becomes what has changed and why does he no longer see working and providing for the family as a priority? Has he slipped into a form of depression and is in need of medical help? The second issue is how to get out of this situation if you can't solve the first problem. Honestly, you may have to turn to sources of help in your community to get you through the rough times. You may actually find it cheaper though to not have him around. Often the truth is that a person who isn't working much and not contributing much to the family is a bigger drain on the finances than what they are bringing in.
I have read many of the writers that suggest the church. If he is a vet from any war, he can go to any VA. The VA has people on staff that will get assistance for his situaion. There is also colleges that have students that need to have cases in order to get their doctoral degree. This will be a good way to get a team of folk to talk to. The professor in charge will guild the student and he almost 9 times out of 10, the professor might have his own practise. He also might be on staff at an institution and writing a book liken to alluding situation.


There might be a mental situation that you might be able to seek help by going with him to Social Security for SSI. There are many agencies that the social services can steer you toward.
He's probably depressed. Make an appointment at the County mental health clinic, to find out if he has a chemical imbalance in the brain that's causing the depression. It's free.


There is no such thing as a free marriage counseling, however, there are psychology major students at the universities who use subjects to practice their counseling skills for extra credits or are waiting for their degrees.


You might want to consider looking into it. The school may charge you though, a small fee, say about 20.00 or less, but it's worth it.


Same thing with dental schools.
Really....He has got a problem. How old is he? Is he going through his midlife crisis or is he depress? Well he does have a job but it doesn't pay well.You are working and that is good. However, I don't understand why you feel the way you feel. I mean that if he had a good job and you did not have to work, I am sure he would not feel as you do.Where does it say that the guy has to be a bread winner. Hypercritical isn't it. You are just upset that you have to work also. Grow up girl and be responsible.