I am married with two girls. I was living in Jamaica for 33 years. I was married for 10yrs and I finally came to live in New York with my husband. But while I was in Jamaica, my husband was sleeping with another Jamaican woman. He has a son with this woman. My eldest daughter joined Facebook and she add my husband son mother as a friend. My daughter showed me the lady on Facebook. The lady posted my husband last name as hers. She adds photos of her in my husband house. My husband is still with her on the low. I told him, how I felt and he started to get mad about divorcing me. What can I do, should I turn to God or should I leave him? What about my daughter, should I tell her to remove the lady as a friend? Help me, I am dying inside. I need bible scriptures to help me.My marriage is on the line, I need advice and help.?
It has been said, 'Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce. 'But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.
Matthew 5:31
i think that if you still love him very much try to work things out but if not leave him! there is no sin in divorce as longs as its for adultry!My marriage is on the line, I need advice and help.?
I have a rule for myself -
If my girlfriend/wife cheats on me and is willing to come back to me, by all means, and I will definitely forgive her.
But if my girlfriend/wife cheats on me and is unwilling to come back tome, then there's no point continuing the relationship/marriage.
And you could ask your daughter to remove her as a friend, if the photo of that slut offends you.
Go see a divorce lawyer. You'll get your husband's money and custody of your daughters.
Edit:
The lawyer will a percentage of your divorce settlement at the end.
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You need a good marriage counselor, not YA. Get help.
The last thing you need is bible scripture. You want something to help or disquise the situation? You have two options. You can kick your husband to the curb or you can have a open marriage. Your children will see their half siblings as having done no wrong and the mother as succombing to your husbands advances. If you think you are good looking enough to get another man do it. If it's about money do what will keep you off broke. Your children will not love a broke person. You made the original mistake of not living with your husband from the beginning. You should have known he would get some on the side if you were not there. Accept your own fault.
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