Thursday, July 29, 2010

If you could give on good line of advice about marriage...?

what would it be and why?








Mine would be - DON'T GET MARRIED!!





Because then you always have to worry about what the other person will think. You can't go out and do what you want.If you could give on good line of advice about marriage...?
Marriage is about trust, honesty, communication, and compromise, compromise, compromise.





Did I mention compromise?





And a comment about what you said about ';...you can't go out and do what you want';. When you are married to your best friend, you CAN go out and do what you want. There isn't a permission thing. You marry a spouse, not a parent.If you could give on good line of advice about marriage...?
Be absolutely willing to abide by, ';in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, until death do us part.';
Wait to have children (at least 3-5 years). You need time to build your relationship.
Respect one another.
Keep your boots under your own bed.
Make sure your are BOTH ready to commit to your wedding vows. ALL of them.
Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
Think long and very hard.
If you find the right personthan one needs to talk and way lots of talk. Nothing comes easy but if it is what you want than work at it like every thing else in life. Not doing something is never the answer, is it? Look at what one misses out one.
marriage is give and take you get married for a reason don't 4get that reason and you will be ok
Like anything else you do in life, if you want to do it well, you have to stay focused. Two people focused together. Make sure you don't drop the ball. Just like going to school or a job, if you want to graduate or get paid, you have to be focused. Yet, people don't think of marriage as being the same thing. A good marriage does not happen right away. You might be happy for a year or two but the key is to be happy for life. You can stay happy a lot easier if you don't look to your spouse to keep you happy. Not their job. It's your job. Remember all those hopes and dreams you both talked about before you were married. Remember them everyday. Don't lose sight of the fun things in life. Do the fun things together. Not each going in a different direction.
My advice would be never go to bed angry. You may never have the opportunity to make up or apologize!
treat each other with total love and devotion, always be true and faithful, treat each other with respect and never stay angry,
Marriage is a lovely, but unnecessary comfort.
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