Thursday, July 29, 2010

Hey my marriage is on the rocks someone give advice!?

Hi, I am a college student. I met my wife just as I got out of the Marines a few years ago. We fell in love and got married. She comes from a rich background but says money doesn't matter, and I just happened to meet her in the point in time when I was about to leave Cali and fly back to RI to finish college. So when I came back I brought her with me, and now we live together. Problem is I have to fight with her to pay half of the bills as I pay the other half, we both work, but she sleeps all day and only works 2 days a week. When I get home there is no food made, and the apt isn't clean. I basically have to tell her to do everything that involves responsibility. But as far as partying and going out she is an expert on that. She loves to go to dave and Busters with her friend, and where ever her friend goes. Her friend is a bad influence on her cause she is with a guy and cheats on him allot. But she says not to worry. I love her but, I seem so different from her, counselingOrdivorce?Hey my marriage is on the rocks someone give advice!?
Sounds like you need to put your foot down or send her packing.


Semper Fi!Hey my marriage is on the rocks someone give advice!?
The only way to get answers is to ASK questions... First off - What do you WANT? Never, ever use the word ';need';. This is the most selfish word ever created. If she responds with needs, then take in the selfishness of the answer. When speaking of yourself, state what it is YOU want. But good communication comes from listening! Then you can make better decisions about your future!
have you told her EXACTLY what you told us?





It does sound like she is in the wrong here and probably was too immature to marry.





In a marriage you BOTH have responsibilities- if you work more.. and support her more financially.. she needs to do more aroudn the house. Marriage is all about helping each other our and beign a team and it sounds liek shes very selfish.





I suggest that you tell her your concerns.. and see if she changes. I have a feeling she wont.





If she doesnt.. you ahve to decide.. is she (LIKE SHE IS) worth spending your life with? Do YOU deserve more?





it certainly sounds like your putting alot more in then she does.

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