I need some advice on how to feel better in my marriage?

My husband got home %26amp; I was lying on the couch because I have injured my neck (from sports).





I said hello %26amp; that I've hurt my neck kind of bad, he said hi, I asked if he'd grab me a blanket and pillow. He seemed angry about that and stormed off, got it, threw it on me and left. Then he stayed on the computer for 6 hours. I went in a few times and asked if he would sit with me and rub my neck, he kept saying yeah yeah in a while, well he never came. Then I found out he was downloading music all that time after I told him to please not do downloads because we have a very sall download limit %26amp; my college finals are in 3 days %26amp; I need the internet to watch online lectures which are big files. I told him the way he acts towards me lately is like I'm not even real, like I'm not here, like I'm invisible. He just said ';Oh Dear God'; and rolled his eyes. Then he fell asleep and is snoring while I sit here awake as usual.





Do any other women feel invisible %26amp; worthless to their husbands, and how do you deal with it...





thank youI need some advice on how to feel better in my marriage?
Wow I am not married but I have been with the same guy for 5 years now and he would never treat me that way. I would suggest finding yourself a new man. I hate to hear about girls being treated so bad by men. You can find better I guarantee it. Find someone that will love and respect you. That guy sounds like someone who has no interest in how you feel or what your are trying to do with your life. You don't need that obviously you are trying hard in school trying to get somewhere in your life don't let a guy drag you down. I promise you can find better.I need some advice on how to feel better in my marriage?
No I have to say I never feel that way.





Probably because I didn't marry a selfish immature azzhole.....





I do hope you two never have kids together....you think he is bad now???? Wait until YOU are the sole caregiver to a little baby, no matter how bad your neck hurts and he is playing on the freaking computer all night.......
It all sounds pretty normal. We are with our husbands so much that we can grow to annoy each other. Men sometimes have a hard time expressing themselves and we do not communicate the same way at all. I would just let it pass.
Sorry to say this and I hate to state the obvious, but it sure seems like you married a very selfish man. I love to give massages and even if an office mate has a stiff neck I will rub her shoulders for her for a few minutes.
tell to get off the dam computer and spend some quality time with you. He's more into the internet than being interactive with people.
you should begin a life of cuckolding right away, and teach him to respect your properly
your not supposed to deal with it. your not supposed to feel this way. It's not 1943. You need to gently confront him and talk about what the real issues are. Maybe there's something else going on. ( not cheating) but maybe he isn't feeling appreciated, or understood, or maybe sometimes HE needs a little extra attention. YOu need to talk and be open to one anothers opinions even if you don't like what you hear. It could save your marriage. Good luck.
Well i use to until i talked to my husband about it becuase my husband is not affectionate what so ever ! its like after a while they stop being affectionate you have to ask for things when you sh ould he should of offered and said let me rub your neck or do you need anything ? becuase your hurt when im hurt my husband babies me and thats the way you should be that guy has a problem ovioulsey